Now technology is a useful thing. Social media is a revolution that has proven very powerful. For the path I am choosing as a passion and career, I need it as a tool. But I have made a promise to myself to only use it as a tool. To build and not fuss around, to not let it consume me. It's only tool. As is money. But friendship and connectedness isn't a tool, it's a gift.
So I've chosen to challenge myself (and anyone else) to at least twice a day talk to someone new or old instead of looking to their phone for entertainment. Look to people for entertainment, be entertaining. We are in these situations everyday where we can meet someone new or help someone or even make conversation but we all turn to our devices and not to others. We hide behind our phones like shields; we can say brilliant words in 140 characters, but why are we scared to say them in real life settings?
Challenge: Don't Turn to The Phone. Turn to the person sitting next to you in class, waiting in line, waiting for a performance to start. Be social for real.
Challenge received and accepted! Here is an interesting observation for you... when we are on an airplane and our phones have to be off-line or put away we DO turn to the person next to us to commune. We truly are, no matter how much we try to convince ourselves we might not be, a social being. We need each other.
ReplyDeleteWe had a basket in my apartment last year for friends to put their cell phones in upon arrival. I am a big fan of technology but I like social interaction more. I agree that we are too reliant on technology. I shared this post with my roommates and that sparked a fantastic conversation about this topic. Thank you. I miss you. Hope you are well!
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